As a kid, I had the distinct pleasure of having Coach Loeffler as my coach at the Pop Warner level. The first and most fundamental lesson that was taught, way back then, was how to act maturely, win or lose. Complaining, griping, and cursing when things were not going my or the teams way was flat out not acceptable, under any circumstances, and was not tolerated. I am appreciative of that, because it stuck with me for the past few decades. I am also grateful to my Mom and Pop, who instilled this same belief. To the people who feel that the coaching staff “lost” the athletes, I find it impossible to believe that this fundamental philosophy has gone by the wayside. However, from the coaches’ standpoint, it must certainly be difficult and frustrating to encourage young adults to act in a commendable manner if this is not taught elsewhere as well. Michael Jordan once said “I’ve failed over and over and over in my life… and that is why I succeed.” Ken Venturri said “It takes no talent to give up. Anybody can do it.” What do we let define us; our failures, or our responses to them? Anyone can hold the helm when the sea is calm. But when things get tough, how do we act? An important lesson that I’ve learned in life is that a persons’ true measure is not in things or what they’ve accomplished, it’s in their character.

As an Executive, I have had to deal with situations where an individual creates such a negative atmosphere, the whole company suffers. What do I do with such individuals? Fire them! So good luck to the kids who are supported in their outrageous behavior. You will need it. And it’s easy to say that maybe the game has passed this coach by, and a change is in order. But how do we know? When there are individuals who spoil the team concept, how do we know? Can we legitimately offer a true opinion on this matter?

Thanks for the articles Mr. Newell. I have read and reread them both, and I’m perplexed by the individual who found you to take a different tone with your second article. I saw no deviations. To me, they were in the same context, and I’d like to thank you for that. Please, keep up the good work. I hope Coach Loeffler is able to maintain the perpetual optimism that you spoke of.

In closing, Coach Loeffler, please know this: I am where I am today not because of any winning or losing season, but because of the values that you helped to instill during those seasons. For that, I am forever grateful.